Esther Tillman

In the rich tapestry of our family history, we uncover the extraordinary life of Esther Tillman. Born in the idyllic setting of Livonia, Point Coupee Parish, Louisiana, in April 1836, she was the daughter of Gideon and Mariah Tillman. As we delve into the annals of her journey, a vivid picture of her life emerges, adorned with captivating details.

Across the canvas of census records, Esther consistently traced her heritage back to her father's roots in Maryland and her mother's origins in North Carolina. She was one of five cherished siblings within the Tillman family, forming close bonds with her brothers Irvin, Scott, Gideon, and Robert Tillman.

However, mysteries surrounding her citizenship status add an enigmatic layer to her story. Esther's life took a poignant turn when she encountered Robert Haley, a skilled barber in the vibrant tapestry of New Orleans. Together, they welcomed three beloved children into the world: John, Robert, and Tena. Tragically, Robert Haley's life was cut short at the age of forty, leaving Esther to continue their journey alone. 

Historic records depict Esther's unwavering dedication as she nurtured her family amid the cotton and corn fields of Laurel Hill, Louisiana, a testament to her enduring love and resilience.

In the chapters that followed, Esther embarked on a new narrative during Reconstruction as she married Jefferson Carter, a minister, an educational pioneer championing African American school formation, and a respected local politician. This union became the fertile ground from which seven more children flourished: Andrew, Vina, William C., Gideon T., Mariah, Jefferson Nichols, and Susie Carter. Tragically, Jeff Carter met his untimely end during the riots that ensued in the aftermath of the contentious Hayes-Tilden presidential Election of 1876.

As the 20th century dawned, Esther's story unfolded in the heart of New Orleans, where her home nestled near Phillip and S. Liberty Streets in the Faubourg Livaudais neighborhood, just walking distance from Buddy Bolden's home. It was here that she shared her days with her children, John Haley, Jefferson, Maria, and Susie Carter. At the age of 93 years at 123 Roman Street, in this cherished location, Esther found her peaceful rest.

Esther Tillman's legacy continues to echo through the corridors of our family history, a testament to her indomitable strength, boundless love, and enduring spirit, an inspiration that continues to enrich our lives today.

This article was written by Chris Smothers.